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Thursday, October 7, 2010

IF YOU SAY YOY LOVE ME, THEN WHY HIT ME?


There are 39 million women abused by their partners. According to the http://www.asafeplaceforhelp.org/ states that every nine seconds a woman is abused by her husband. That is a terrible thing, I think a man should never hit a woman. Men who hit women are cowards, I feel they men hit on women simply because they know they are bigger and stronger and the woman has let them think that they can rule them. Domestic Violence and Abuse is used for one and only one purpose and that is to gain total control over a person. Those who are abuser use the fear, low- self esteem that the person they are abusing to keep them down and make them feel worthless and that no one else wants them. I think Domestic Violence should become a felony. Maybe if it was a felony guys would think about what they are doing a stop. Only about half of domestic violence incidents are reported to police. African- american women are more than likely to report than any others says Lawarence A. Greenfield Violence By Intimates: Analysis of Data on Crimes. As a young woman myself I understand that those who are in a abusive relationship they need to help themselves also, no one can help you if you can't help youself. Women need to think about if you have children who know that you are being abused fight to get out of that realationship, because you don't want your son/daughter to be a abuser or be in a abusive relationship. Abuse is a cycle that either the abuser has had this happen to or knows someone very close who was abused or was the abuser and they pick up the traits.If you think someone you know is in a abusive relationship look for these Signs control over everything he/she does, excessive calling or check ups. Domestic Violence is like a Disease and WE NEED TO HELP STOP IT! Lets lower the number of women being abused. To learn more about Domestic Violence and, Statistics on domestic violence click on these links.